Marital Affairs Have Devastating Effects
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Marital Affairs have many underlying causes, and it pays to stay alert and watch for these things. A marital affair can be so devastating emotionally that many don’t ever recover. Their lives are shattered beyond recovery and they sink into deep depression. It really is a sad thing to see.
Many unpleasant emotions arise due to extra marital affairs. If caught unaware, the first may be disbelief, then shock, then jealousy and rage. Later humiliation and despair may set in, and depression may soon follow. It be-littles a partner when they lose value in your eyes. They feel inadequate and helpless.
The sacredness of the marriage vows creates a bond that is serious. Every precaution should be taken in order to uphold the vows and be faithful to one another. That means you’ll have to be a good listener, and be attentive to your mate’s needs. And likewise your mate will need to listen to your needs and help you with them. It’s a hard thing to keep a marriage going, and you have to be willing to work at it.
Many times things like drinking can be involved. But why are they drinking? Is it because of you? Did they drink before you met? It’s a lifestyle for some of the baby boomers, and it seems to be an accepted reason in many circles for misbehaving. “Oh, I was drunk. I don’t remember.”
The injured party reflects on the why’s of the situation. What did they do to deserve being cheated on. It’s a tormenting time in their life. It’s intense and so personal they have a hard time focusing on anything else. And once an extra marital affair has taken place, the road to recovery is hard, and many times can never be traveled all the way back.
It’s a de-valuation of your spouse and their input into the relationship. It makes them feel inadequate, in spite of all the things they put into it. That’s another part of what makes extra marital affairs such a destructive force and makes the divorce rate rise.
Once the intimacy has been lost, it’s extremely difficult to ever get back. The visions of their partner doing things with someone else are constantly there in bed with you. Even after years of trying, with successful faithfulness, the affair will loom heavily in your spouse’s heart and mind.
Many times one of them in their own way, keeps sending messages that they need something in a certain area, only to have that misread or dismissed continually. This drives a wedge between them, and the intimacy begins to wane, as this problem needs to be corrected for the one who has the need. That’s why openness is so crucial to a successful marriage.
Being honest with yourself and your spouse is the only way to keep things on a workable field. Let them know how you feel about things, and both sides should always hold the fact that nobody is perfect, and by expecting too much from your mate, you can cause just as many problems. Realize you’re both human and prone to mistakes, and don’t hold grudges that shut down communication.
Before things end up in an extra marital affair, take a long look at your spouse, and remember all the love and splendor of your earlier times. Don’t forsake the love that’s been given you. It’s not everyone who will love you like that, and plan a life together with you. It’s not to be taken lightly. Be an equal, but never over-power, and never shut off even the slightest communications. Don’t be caught unaware.
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